Winter Garden PBC thanks Elder McCool for his service to the LORD and for bringing us all closer to God and our families through his series on Husbands and Wives.
The Subjection of Eve
The Submission of Sharah
Know Your Wife (Elkanah)
Give honor to your wife
Here are some notes that Brother Chris Morton was kind enough to take for the blog post. Thanks Bro. Chris.
Winter Garden Primitive Baptist Church - Annual Meeting - Notes
Friday, November 18, 2011 (7:30 PM)
Saturday, November 19, 2011 (10:30 AM & 2:00 PM)
Sunday, November 20, 2011 (10:30 AM)
Elder Tim McCool - From Tuscaloosa, Alabama
The theme of the messages throughout the weekend were based on "Family".
As described from the message there are many characters throughout the
Bible just like you and I. Why? Because they like us struggled due to our depravity.
Friday, November 18, 2011 - Sermon Notes - 7:30 PM
"The Subjection of Eve"
The text was I Peter 3:1
Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any
obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the
conversation of the wives.
The word "subjection" in this verse is just not for the role of the wife.
Everyone, is in subjection or submission in some form. I Peter 2:13;
Submit yourselves to every ordinance of man for the Lord's sake: whether
it be to the king, as supreme. The bottom line is that as children of God
we are instructed to obey the law and honor those that have the rule and
authority over us. Why does God require subjection from us? All we need
to do is look to the work that was finished on the Cross at Calvary.
Christ and he alone was the ultimate and perfect example of what subjection
looks like unto our Heavenly Father. Our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ
took the penalty for us and He was perfect without sin. Failure to
subject yourself, is all out rebellion!
The fall began in the Garden of Eden with Adam and Eve. Adam only had one
law to keep and he could not keep it. He wasn't even confused about what
he did; he did it deliberately. Although Adam was to blame for the fall of
mankind, he tried to blame Eve. She was not the blame for the fall of
mankind, she was deceived. Adam and Eve were real people - not just some
metaphor. When God called out for Adam and knew that he had eaten of the
tree Adam quickly blamed Eve, "That woman whom thou gavest to be with me,
gave me of the tree, and I did eat". Adam, was dishonest and Eve
inevitably told the truth. Eve was yoked together with this wicked man in
Adam that was not interested in her protecting and loving her as he should.
What in the world was Adam doing away from his wife (Eve) when the serpent
beguiled her? His sin and foolishness caused him to ere.
Saturday, November 19, 2011 - Sermon Notes - 10:30 AM
"The Submission of Sarah"
There is subjection as the role of the wife to her husband as God has
commanded in our text I Peter 3:1. We should not break the standard of God
in our daily living if we want to worship Him supremely. We must hang-on
to every bit of information from the Word of God and apply it to our lives.
We must subject ourselves to Christ and him alone.
There truly is no relationship that compares to biblical marriage. Why?
Because God say so! Everything is based on the finished work of Christ.
How said is it that we live in a society today where we have to clarify or
emphasize that marriage is only between a man and a woman.
Many Godly wives throughout history and today as well endure challenges
along life's path. However, there are probably not to many woman today
that could say they endured what Sarah endured as Abraham's wife. She is a
great illustration of subjecting and submitting herself fully to her
husband. Here are some of the challenges Abraham brought before his wife
based on his obedience to the Lord.
- He asked her to move to a foreign land.
- He asked her to go out and camp in the wilderness.
- He told her that God instructed him to change her name.
- He told her that they were going to have a child when she was 90.
- He told her to deny that they were married at one point.
- He informed her that he gave Lot the first choice of land.
- He abruptly left for seven days to go and capture Lot.
- He notified her upon his return after his journey with their only son
Isaac that he had gone to offer him as a sacrifice, but God provided
a Ram in his place.
- He told his wife that he needed to perform emergency surgery on all
of the males in their house.
Humor, has great value in marriage. Sarah obviously had a wonderful sense
of humor and although she made some mistakes along the way she was an ideal
example of a submissive woman with a meek and quiet spirit. That does not
mean that she did not speak or fearful, rather she displayed a godly
disposition and countenance.
We as Christians cannot stray off the narrow path of the biblical way -
because if we do it can cause total destruction. Yes, even once. We have
to always remember that the Lord will perform His will on His time table.
We must always remember that it doesn't matter what you say or do
outwardly. It's what the Lord sees inwardly. Help us to remember...
"Lord" it's all about an audience of one - "ALMIGHTY GOD!".
Saturday, November 19, 2011 - Sermon Notes - 2:00 PM
"Know Your Wife" (ElKanah)
The text toward this message was I Peter 3:7
Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving
honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs
together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
Elkanah was a man with two wives; Hannah and Peninnah: Pininnah had
children, but Hannah had no children. Pininnah was Hannah's adversary
because she provoked her sore, for to make her fret, because the Lord had
shut up her womb. What a dilemma for Elkanah one that none of us could
ever imagine. He is a good illustration of how we should react to all
types of situations with our wives by following God's direction in I Peter
3:7. Let us look at the Godly character that we are to employ with our own wifes.
- Dwell with them according to knowledge - know your wife.
- A husband is to give honour to her - your wife.
- We are commanded to understand one woman - our wife.
- The husband is the "Houseband" - which means that the husband binds
the foundation of the home. We are the leaders of our home.
- We used to be a patriarchal society, but now we are a matriarchal
society - which is a trend of women leading the home.
- It is the husbands responsibility to protect and provide for this
fragile vase that is your wife.
- The Lord calls us to dwell with your wife. It's biblical for a
husband to want to be with his wife.
- We should have a strong desire to be with your wife based on our
presence with her.
Points of scripture that reiterate these valuable attributes of a husband
toward his wife are as follows:
- Ecclesiastes 9:9
- Proverbs 5:15
- Ephesians 5:28
Don't get caught up in today's technology over the Internet via social
networking. This is imagination and in many cases extremely unrealistic.
If you focus on worldly things and not Godly things - He will not bless you.
Always remember the fact that you learn a lot more about people by asking
them questions. Exactly the way in which Elkanah did with Hannah.
1) Hannah why are you weeping?
2) Hannah why are you not eating?
3) Hannah why are you grieved?
We like Elkanah must be sympathetic to your spouse.
What an incredible ending to this amazing story; Hannah experiences a great
revival in her life as she conceived, that she bare a son, and called his
name Samuel, because I have asked him of the Lord.
As men we have a tendency to have a dominating personality that needs to be
kept in check - especially when it comes to our wife. Do what seemeth to
be good - and not according to the flesh either. Only if it's of the Lord, do it!
Elkanah knew how to know his wife, we as Godly men should emulate his
approach.
Sunday, November 20, 2011 - Sermon Notes - 10:30 AM
"Honour & Respect" (Boaz & Ruth)
Again, our text toward this message was I Peter 3:7
Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving
honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs
together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
In our text it speaks about the woman being the "Weaker Vessel" which by no
means implicates being weaker minded - because that's just not true. It
means that we are to handle her with care as a fragile vase.
Now we are going to look at the honour and respect aspect of men walking in
the way of God's Word and not the sub-standard way of this dark world.
To know your wife is to give her honor - by assigning respect due to one's
rank. Think about it... her rank is just beneath Gods! Your spouse is for
a lifetime and we should cherish this will all of our being. It is an abundant
blessing from God that we do not deserve, but should be extremely thankful for.
There is nothing that gives you a true picture of one individual than the
way in which they are around other people. The sick, the needy, the widows
the elderly - so on and so forth.
We live in a time where technology and the computer age for many has taken
over where they think they will meet their soul mate. Unfortunately, in
most cases you will never have a true sense of who that person really is -
until it's to late. Guard yourself and wait upon the Lord.
Boaz is the illustration of this message beginning with the level of
respect he has for others. In Ruth 2:4 Boaz came from Bethlehem, and said
unto the reapers, The Lord be with you. And they answered him, The Lord
bless thee.
Next, Boaz makes an impressive impression with the way in which he
interacts with his future wife in which he refers to as a damsel in Ruth 2:5.
Simply, Boaz is illustrating exactly who he is with everyone he comes in
contact with throughout the Book of Ruth. He is being who he is... A Godly
man! He is doing what comes spiritually. Boaz made secret provisions for
Ruth just like our Lord does for each one of His children.
Ten Things That You Can Do To Honor and Respect The Sisters:
1) Leviticus 19:32 and I Kings 2:19 To rise up before the Elderly (men and women).
2) Job 32:6 Hold your tongue and your opinion out of respect.
3) Proverbs 23:22 Hearken unto thy father and mother whom you should listen to.
4) Psalm 149:9 Give judgement in a way that is fair as God has judged you.
5) Proverbs 20:3 It is an honor to cease from strife. Don't argue! No
bickering or being combative. Strife will never bring unity.
6) Proverbs 21:21 It is an honor not to follow foolishness, but righteousness.
7) I Timothy 5:3 and 5:17 Honor widows - that are widows indeed. Provide for her.
8) John 8:49 Brag on her!
9) Proverbs 31:31 Give to her the virtuous women. Give her love, money, support, etc.
10) Esther 6:3 HONOR! HONOR!! HONOR!!!
Please keep in mind these are notes taken during the life sermons and are
not verbatim quotes. This is an outline of notes related to the content
covered throughout the course of the meeting.
Brother Chris Morton
Member - Winter Garden Primitive Baptist Church - Winter Garden, FL